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Today, January 30, is an anniversary for me.

It's been 10 years since I broke up with my abuser, kicked him out for good, and finally started choosing myself.

It only took him a day to find a new apartment, yet 2 days later, he tried to spend the night on my couch. When I told him to leave, he threw me into a wall and gave me a massive concussion. I would not begin to recover from the brain damage for 6 months.

It was at least the fourth time I had called the police on him, and the only time...

October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month — a time set aside to shed light on an issue that too often hides in the shadows. For me, this month isn’t just a spot on the calendar; it’s a reminder of why awareness matters so deeply. Abuse thrives in silence, and the more we talk about it, the more we break down the shame and isolation that keep survivors feeling trapped.

This year, I’m marking the month in a very personal way: by donating copies of my book, Putting Myself Back...

This past weekend was nothing short of incredible. Walking into the book convention, I knew it would be a busy, inspiring event—but I wasn’t prepared for just how much it would fill my heart. The energy in the room was electric: authors sharing their journeys, vendors showcasing their creativity, and readers eager to connect with stories that moved them. Everywhere I turned, there was kindness, talent, and genuine excitement.

For me, one of the best parts...

February 1st was the nine year anniversary of the worst and best night of my life. I feared for my and my daughter's life as my abuser got more and more violent with me and then tried to go for my daughter's room. I ended up in the hospital with a concussion, my daughter was thankfully untouched but terrified, and my abuser was arrested. Seven years ago I mustered the courage to finally share my story publicly and I will NEVER stop sharing, educating, and doing my part to end domestic abuse....